My life looked polished. My life felt like a cage.
Everyone around you calls it a good life. You keep waiting to feel it.
You have been fine for a long time now.
You were never meant to perform for love. You were meant to be love.
I'm Julie Heaton — Author, Coach, Podcast Guest and Circle Keeper.
IF YOU ARE STANDING HERE…
You built a life that works. The title fits, the calendar is full, the people around you are cared for. And you're somewhere underneath all of it. Underneath the roles, stories and patterns that got you right here.
You learned early that love required performance. You began to squish yourself into shapes that felt safe. Who are you, and what do you want? It's time to be the author, narrator and star of your life.
You are not starting over. You are coming back home to yourself.
Love doesn't demand shapeshifting. Love liberates.
What comes next is learning to love yourself so completely that you no longer require approval or validation outside of yourself. You ROAR.
“When I read the part about hating your job and feeling that it's toxic, it struck me. I'm in that place in my life right now.”
Veronica Rouette · on The Manifester's Playbook
TWO ROOMS
Both built so you feel safe and seen.
ONE-TO-ONE
One voice, at your pace.
This is for people who want a personalized approach to transformation. We work closely, find the patterns, stories and beliefs, and move through them one by one. You decide what to bring forward with you.
A fifteen-minute conversation first, to see if we’re a match
A practical approach to real life situations
Easy-to-use tools to practice between sessions"
A method — ROAR — you'll learn once and use for the rest of your life
Book the fifteen-minute conversation →
THE ROAR CIRCLE
Six circles, four pillars.
A circle is not an audience. Three rules: what's said there stays there. Honesty over politeness. "I'll pass" is a complete sentence.
We learn the ROAR pillars: Reclaim, Own, Align, Radiate
Six sessions, one every two weeks, over twelve weeks. Ninety minutes live, a thirty-minute peer-to-peer call in between, plus reading and tools you can use in your actual week
Zoom, cameras on. Recorded for the times you just can't make it.
The next circle begins October 6.
Ask for a seat→
Love Letters — for you
I always write about real life, something I have lived. I tell it with all the gory details — the good, the bad and the ugly. Circles, retreats and giveaways are announced here first.
I’m Julie.
I teach people to stop performing for love.
For years there were days I drove more than an hour to work, sat in the parking lot, and drove home again without going in.
From the outside it looked like a life anyone would want. On the inside I was brutally unhappy.
At fifty,I chose me.
I lost a lot. I gained more — I gained myself. Everything I bring to a room is something I have already walked and then gone looking for the research on. I will not teach you a thing I have not lived. I’m a Spiritual Realist: everything I teach is grounded in reality with a sprinkle of fairy dust.
THE SHELF
Start on the page, if that’s easier.
Seven books. ROAR: Your Sacred Rebellion for the person putting the performance down, The Manifester's Playbook and The Manifester’s Workbook for the practice of it, and four for the little ones who haven't spent a lifetime forgetting they were enough — illustrated by Caroline Dittmann.
Ask It Plainly
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No. This is coaching, and I'm an author and coach rather than a therapist — I say so out loud in the room. It's a strong companion to therapy, and plenty of people do both.
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Then read a while first. Readiness isn't a prerequisite here, and there is always another circle. The door doesn't lock behind anyone.
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In a circle, yes. This is a be-seen space — that isn't a rule bolted on for order, it's the work.
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Send you letters. That's the whole of it. It is never sold, rented, or shared, and one click at the bottom of any letter ends it for good.
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For a circle, yes — the reading is part of each week. For one to one, no.
